We often say words we don’t mean or are clumsy, thoughtless in how we respond to someone, especially if the conversation is an emotional one and you feel in some way you threatened. We let people “off the hook”, because that’s how they always react or that’s just the way  they are. Most family arguments are caused through a breakdown in communication and words being thrown at each other through hurt and frustration. Our limbic (emotional), brain takes over the conversation, p

When I was growing up I felt different. I wasn’t sure why or how but I just felt I was a little different from everyone else. My friends were into clothes and how they looked - I wasn’t really. Then they were into boys - I wasn’t. Then they were into makeup, heels and handbags - I wasn’t. To be honest I am not sure why I felt different, I just did. A bit like a round peg in a square hole, trying to fit in when it felt so odd. Then one day a lady at church a lady came up to me